Online dating first dates
Limiting the time of the first date is a safety precaution: if you end up on a nightmare of a date you’ve already established your “out”.
After all, contacting someone is just a pre-cursor to the first date.Honestly, I have never felt comfortable talking on the phone for long periods of time (even to close friends) so I prefer to jump straight from the internet communication to meeting.If you enjoy talking on the phone or prefer to do so before meeting someone, treat this step like you would the first date by asking for the phone number by the third email.If this happens to you, wait a few days (continuing the email conversations) and then ask again.Unless a good reason is give for not meeting, I would not ask more than three times – there are some people out there who are looking to make online friends or live fantasies out in their head without any intention of actually meeting.
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One common reason to delay a first date is due to an attempt to learn more about the other person. I found the first few minutes of the first date are worth more than dozens of emails.